Pleasant Surprise, Fashion-Wise (ha)

I am not one to be a snob about brands or where I shop. I really like mixing it up and finding pieces all over the place. I get a little thrill out of finding something amazing in the most unexpected place and when someone asks me where I got it and I fill them in they react with disbelief. Fun.Even so, I guess I’m not immune to stereotyping stores and avoiding based on what I think I know. I was surprised to come across this article in Chinashop online about a well-known extremely preppy clothing brand/store’s new fall line. Check the pic-

J CREW!  Really. We used to get their catalog at my house when I was a teenager and their clothing was just plain boring. It was the epitome of preppy style.  Yes, the colors are still pretty muted, nothing too harsh in this palette. The military accents, vintage feel, copious layers and fun accessories are a pleasant contrast to what comes to mind when I think of  this brand. Like traditional J-crew, some of the pieces are very simple and worn alone or with other J-crew style clothing they won’t look like much of anything. The genius in this is in the way things are put together and layered.

Guess which one of those outfits I really like?  If you picked anything but the second from the right you just don’t get me and I think we need to break up.

Some of the jackets and accessories may end up as additions to my wardrobe. Anybody else see anything that catches your eye?

A mini-update & the best.lipstick.ever!

I wanted to post some Morgana lipstick swatches but I am having a hard time getting accurate pics of the colors on my lips. I don’t know if it’s the camera or lighting so I plan to swatch them on my arm or hand and then take my time getting proper pics of them being worn. I cannot wait until I post them to tell you how amazing these are! I may have gushed about them before but I am so in love with the formula. It feels a little dry once on so if you suffer from chapping or peeling try this- load up your lips with balm, leave it for a minute and then exfoliate gently with a damp towel. Then apply balm again, let it sink in for a few minutes this time, then blot. Then you are good to go!

They are super-long wearing and fade down to what looks like a stain, but removes easily if you try. They do not leave that dreaded ring around the outside of your lips that looks like badly applied early 90’s liner. I like them matte but once they start to wear off I put a gloss over it rather than touching up and it looks so pretty. I can’t recommend these enough! The one caveat- they only come in offbeat colors. Nothing remotely natural. That’s almost too bad because people who shy away from bright or very dark colors are missing out on an amazing product.

Also, I am not posting as much as I could because I don’t like making all these posts without pictures.I am trying to get my hands on PhotoShop and teach myself some PS skillz . I want to gussy this blog up and make it prettier and more appealing. I’m still on the lookout for a better theme. I may even move my blog to another host if It’s easier to edit the way it looks.

Facial Contouring

Now is the time to try facial contouring because of all the products that flood the counters in summer that will make contouring as easy as can be. You want two products- both powder or cream is fine but I prefer powder- one lighter than your skin and one darker. Rule of thumb is a few shades each way. You don’t want to go too dark  or else you will look like you’re wearing a mask.My tip is to picture the range from your shade to the darkest end of the spectrum and pick the shade exactly in-between the two. A lot of the bronzers released in the summer will work fine but it must be matte!! No shimmer. As far as the lighter shade you can just buy a regular powder or foundation that is a couple shades lighter than your skin unless you are very pale, like me.  Then you will need to buy a product meant to be used as a highlighter. This can be shimmery, unlike the contour color.Fyrinnae has wonderful highlighters that are very inexpensive. You could also look at the drugstore for something like an illuminating cream but high-end brands have more products specifically meant for highlighting. For brushes, a blush brush that isn’t too big or stiff will work  nicely, or try a fan brush.

Contouring can be used on lips and eyes but I want to focus on the face for now. The reason for doing this is that it gives you a nice, pulled-together very finished look. It brings out cheekbones and gives dimension to a face that may not have sharp angles anywhere. This is a great technique for people with round faces!

Anything that is dark receeds, and anything light is brought forward. The oval shape is the most desired, so you want to mentally trace an oval around the outside of your face. You can begin by lightly applying the darker color to the outside of the oval focusing on the sides of your face above and beside your eyes curving up and over just to the arch of your eyebrow and the hollows of the cheeks. You can apply some color to the hairline but go lightly. Blend!!

If you want your nose to appear smaller or straighter, take the lighter color and apply it from the bridge to the tip of your nose as wide as you want it to appear and then apply the darker color on the sides of the nose.

You can also apply the darker color to the jawline to make your face and your neck seem farther apart. Also, a trick for creating the illusion of having cleavage- dust bronzer on the inner curves of your breasts! A little highlighter on your collarbones is pretty too.

Now you want to highlight in between your eyebrows, on the browbone, the tops of the cheeks above the darker  contour color, below the under-eye area and the cupid’s bow.Blend the light and dark colors into each other very well, it should be seamless!! Blend and blend some more. You should notice that your face looks more angular!

Whenever I do this my mom tells me I look “glowy.”

Also, if you want to add an undead twist- Instead of bronzer in the hollows of your cheeks, use a dark purple.

Hair dying tips for funky colours

I just finished putting some pink and purple streaks in my hair and thought making a post of tips for dying your hair funky colours would be fun!

Before you start make sure you have plenty of gloves and wrap the bottle in saran wrap if you plan on only using part of it (so when storing it and reaching for it you don’t get dye everyplace.) Put petroleum jelly around the hairline and you may want to pick up dye-removing cloths for the skin at a beauty supply to wipe off mistakes on your ears, neck or shoulders! (acne wipes work too)

1) If you are using a dye such as Manic Panic or Special Effects the dye will transfer to surfaces like towels and pillowcases, without exception! This means if you care about the ones you have  buy a spare specifically for this purpose. Especially if you are a teen doing this without parent’s permission and you’re worried about their reaction. Buying a dark colored towel and a pillowcase to ruin will lessen the tirade. Also protecting any and every surface within reach while you are applying the color is important. Laying newspapers out on the floor, using paper towels to cover the sink and surface areas….you get the idea, right? I know it takes time and is annoying to clean but it’s better than ruining the floor or having to re-paint before you move because of dying your hair.

2) Possibly an extension of above but don’t apply the color in big gobs or it will drop or end up on the walls. Apply a small amount at a time and using a tint brush available from a beauty supply store will help! Use the brush and then massage the color in with your fingers. It has to be really wet but just short of dripping.

3) If you are using more than one color, consider picking up the following things to make it easier- A highlighting cap,highlighting foils, rattail comb and a comb with a small hook on the end for picking up strands of hair out of the cap. You can find kits with all these together at Sally’s.

4) If you are doing streaks and want them to look evenly placed you can use this method- Divide your hair into three sections, one for each side and one for the back. Take a rattail comb and hold it parallel to your part at the scalp. Starting at the end of one of the sections, weave the metal tail up and down through the top of your hair, only going a fraction of an inch down or up. When you reach the other end of the section pick up the top layer of hair from the comb- Those sections are the ones you color. You can take them and brush the color on them all at once, with a foil under the section and fold the foil up to your scalp so it stays in place. You can do this all over your head, from the scalp to nape of each section or just with a few spots,also you can alter the amount of streaks by weaving through more or less times. I don’t know if I described that clearly enough but if you have any questions, ask away!

5) Use a very small brush around the hairline like a toothbrush or one of those lash or eyebrow combs for cosmetics.

6)Get a color-protecting shampoo & conditioner. Also using a leave-in conditioner will help keep your hair from feeling brittle and breaking.

7) Rinse your hair in cold water, as cold as you can stand- this will help keep the color in longer.

8 ) With these dyes you can leave them on longer than the 30 minutes stated on the bottle. They do not contain peroxide and leaving them on for 2 hours isn’t  much worse than 20 minutes when it comes to damage. Put a plastic bag over your head and clip the ends together so it stays put. Then blow dry your head with it on a low setting. You don’t want to dry it because when it’s dry it stops working. You just want to heat up the inside of the bag so the humidity and warmth open the hair follicle, allowing the color to deposit more effectively.

9) Random Fact- Red pigments fall out of the hair follicle more quickly than any other color. If you are going red be prepared to take care of it and re-dye more often.

10) If you can afford it, go to a salon. Especially if you need to bleach all of your hair before you dye. I bleached my own for the streaks and I had to do it two times just to get it light enough. I would never do my whole head (again) It’s such a pain, however, since you are just dying over it then little mistakes don’t matter as much as if you were staying blonde. For the cost of getting all the supplies to bleach a whole head and dye it a fun color(s) you could probably just get it bleached at a cheap salon and dye over it yourself at home.

That’s about it I think. All I can think of for now! I hope there’s at least one tip in there that may be something new for somebody. Also for upcoming posts I’m planning on some Fyrinnae swatches including wearing the lip lustres .

A call for assistance!

Hey, my amazing readers! There aren’t a whole lot of you, I know, but I’m pleased there are even a few!  I am having a little problem though and explaining it is going to make me sound a little daft.

I really need to  know ways to make it easier for YOU to follow this blog if you choose to do so. I’ve tried rustling up the info for myself but I haven’t gotten anywhere yet. I do not understand RSS. How do I make my page available on an RSS feed?I would like to know how to make my blog able to be followed through it’s home page and through sites like Blog Lovin’.I don’t know what I’m talking about enough to know what questions to ask. I was wondering if some of these features are built in with a site other than WordPress? If anyone can tell me how to do any single thing or if someone can give me a rundown of features I should have and point me towards tutorials I would appreciate it so much.

Bound By Ink

I don’t know about you but I love magazines. I grew up with Sassy and I still enjoy reading them. Among my Favorites are “Nylon”  “Spin” and “Gothic Beauty.”

Well today while I was picking up “Allure”, I came across a new magazine that seemed quite out of place on Walgreens magazine rack.Between the cover model in a striped corset and mini-top hat and the quality of the layout it just didn’t seem on par with the generic bridal and beauty magazines. It’s called “Bound By Ink.”  It was the premier issue and the cover announces it’s focus on various lifestyles and cultures that are joined by skin art. Unlike the traditional Tatt-mag that merely showcases art and artists this magazine is devoted to the people behind the art, the wearer’s stories and the different subcultures that are associated with this art form. I tore through the gorgeous photos and well-written articles in the first issue and cannot wait for the second!

Seriously, check it out.  http://www.boundbyink.com/

A WIN on my Black liner quest!

Maybelliner

OKAY, I apologize if you are starting to think my entire blog is reviews on black eyeliners. It really isn’t, I swear! I think this is one of the last for the time being.

Now, I don’t know why I haven’t just stuck with cream liners since the first one I tried.Cream and gel liners give the sharp look of liquid with no mess. They are so easy to work with,Truly foolproof! My mother purchased me a Smashbox black cream liner when they were newly available to the masses. I absolutely loved it and was quite sad when it ran out. This place was somehow barren of Sephora and buying another online didn’t even occur to me as I wasn’t as makeup obsessed then.

I picked up a HIP cream liner along the way but never used it. I got the Smashbox Cream Liner Palette and wasn’t as impressed with the product as I remember- perhaps the tiny amount in the palette wasn’t exactly right for some reason? I don’t know but I had almost forgotten the pure bliss of a good cream/gel liner formula. Then- it’s like the heavens parted  when I first tried out my new liner that I purchased on impulse. Maybelline Eyestudio Gel Liner in blackest black is pretty freakin’ good. It may even be great.

It lasts all day. I tried sans primer and still had great results! Without primer it still looked good after ten hours. With, It survived a splash of water to the face (9 hrs after application) without smudging even a little. It still looked perfect untilI removed it 14 hours  after applying it! It is easily swiped off with proper remover though.  It feels and looks oh-so-nice. The little brush that comes with it actually works well for the job. Also,I swatched a couple shadows over it on my arm last night and I loved the effect! I am just exploring the possibilities of colored bases. The swatches stayed put through sleeping all night! They were a little muddled looking because of getting rubbed up against constantly but not very faded. They wouldn’t be going through that on my eye but lids are different and more oily than an arm obviously. I don’t have pics of those at the moment, sorry bout that!

Here it is on my hand, I swiped it and then went over it once more  but even a single coat is black enough!

The second pic is Jordana’s black pencil liner compared to Lasting Drama gel, just to put it in perspective.

Jordana pencil vs. Maybelline gel

Bottom line is that it’s a great product, good value and gel/cream liners are nice  in general!

Style Crushes!

Have you ever saw someone who really had such killer style  that you couldn’t help but feel something like jealousy and want to immediately discard everything you own and replace it with things “that girl” wears? Her hair, makeup and OH WOW her clothes, so creative, so well-done! This happened to me most recently with Amy, or Shrinkle- famous among  the online beauty community for creating “Sugarpill” her own amazingly cute & bright makeup line.I caught my thoughts surpassing admiration and entering into borderline jealousy and coveting and had to laugh at myself. Now I know that when I feel that way it’s just because someone has a fierce sense of personal style worthy of  checking out and appreciating and not that my own style is lacking. When I was younger, I didn’t understand this concept even a little.

I was very overweight as a little girl. I suddenly shed the majority of my baby-fat the summer between sixth and seventh grades, just before junior high- an optimal time if ever there was one!  Even though I had shed an impressive amount of pounds and my body was maturing I was the epitome of insecure. I had no idea how to handle people having fun at my expense nor did I know how to handle positive attention. I was of the thought that since I was never going to fit in no matter what I tried or did, I might as well be as different as possible and enjoy dressing for school in the morning. I soaked up grunge “fashion” and ended up looking like a colorblind bag lady. Maybe it was because the styles I emulated weren’t on display to suburban 13-year-old however I got the idea of my perfect style from 90’s alt-rock videos, Rolling Stone & Spin magazines, and the occasional people-watching in Boston. I would just be perfecting my grunge look when Nine Inch Nails was the best band ever in our circle so everything that was brown or plaid now had to be black or shiny. When the local bands playing at halls and such became high-school tributes to 70’s punk bands, I was busy the day after my very first show scrounging up safety pins and bleach to alter my jeans and boots. Luckily those stylistic transitions were pretty easily and smoothly made. As I got a little older, while still being impressionable I remember seeing real goths for the first time. Not just kids with all black on but people who spent a lot of time (and hairspray) on their looks. It was intricate and beautiful and I was hooked. This style WAS me. I had already basically been on the path anyhow. I threw myself entirely into becoming GOTH. I dyed my hair purple (the first time, how fondly I remember!) I braided it in a  hundred colored braids running down my back. I pierced my lip and dressed up. I ended up at the goth club as soon as I turned the magical age of 19 (in Boston it’s a year later for some reason) It reduced me to my incredibly insecure self from junior high. I knew I wasn’t “goth enough” after seeing these people. I  didn’t always dress the part and I liked the music but I also liked metal, punk, and even underground hip-hop- did that make me not goth? It felt like being part of a subculture was more limiting than being in the majority of the population.

Bottom line is that I was constantly comparing myself to other people and not measuring up. I adapted my style to others that I saw  always thinking someone else was more “something.” Whatever that “something” was that I wanted to be. Of course you don’t have to completely adapt yourself to a pre-existing style. You should adapt the style to yourself. Or just take aspects of it and leave the rest! You like blue hair and black nails with flower-print dresses? Go for it. You don’t have to live by anyone else’s rules. I love that subcultural styles exist. I just think that sometimes very young people don’t understand that they should function as a jumping-off point, rather than a strict code of dress. Actually, I’ve met some adults that don’t think that way either! I know personally I’ve come a long way because of experimenting within these styles. I’m kind of a hybrid when it comes to dress, people can’t immediately peg me as anything. When I buy something  to wear it’s simply because it appeals to me. Now I wonder if sometime, some chicky will see my style the way I saw Skrinkle?

Article-Staying true to your Alternative Style- Pt. 2

Maybe you have decided that dressing up and decorating yourself on your off-time isn’t enough. Maybe you think that a job should accept not just your work ethic, but your personal style as well and wish they would realize that how you look doesn’t have to affect how you perform. Or maybe you are so devoted to the modifications you have made to your body that you simply cannot alter that for anything. I totally understand. I wish employers and more importantly the public that the employers worry about could be more accepting. Unfortunately, plenty of workplaces are not okay with body art and un-natural hair colors and styles.  I am trying my best to compile a list of places and ideas of the kinds of places that will accept alternative styles.

I’m going to skip over the obvious like owning a business, tattoo parlors, etc. Pretty much anyplace you can work without coming face-to face with customers is usually accepting of your personal style. Warehouses, call-centers, restaurant kitchens, etc. Places that pander to alternative styles will work- House of Blues and other concert venues, stores that sell rock band T-shirts & gear, Hot Topic…& speaking of Hot Topic many mall stores are flexible with their employees choice of hair and body mods. Spencer’s gifts, Claire’s accessories, Forever 21, and H&M.  are just a few. Borders Books is down with the tatts & such, so checking out other Book Stores policies seems logical.Many bars are fine with their bartenders looking how they want as long as it brings customers in and not the opposite.

Working as a Make-up artist, Cosmetologist, etc. gives you free reign. Likewise being a cosmetology teacher or working in a beauty school in any position, I think. Also working in a Beauty Supply store or makeup and hair oriented shop. Sally’s Beauty & Sephora are known to be ok with their employees looking how they want. With Sephora you’d have to really pay attention to your makeup and looks, obviously. They want people selling their products that have interest in them like in  most retail environments. Salons are usually flexible, but don’t apply at a salon that caters to older clients or is in a very suburban area. Also, chain discount salons are probably a no-go.

Working with computers, as a technician, in software development or as a graphic designer usually works. Obviously being in any artistic profession is great if you’re worried about someone trying to cramp your style literally. I was surprised to find that Dell and Sony are openly open about being body mod friendly though.

Strip clubs and adult stores are pretty open-minded! I know this from experience, people. lol.Dave & Busters & Little Ceasar’s are ok with Alt-Styles. Unfortunately many chain-restaurants are not, such as Burger King & McDonalds, Pizza Hut & Papa Johns.

A lot of Vintage stores are cool, like Buffalo Exchange. Most independent thrift stores that cater to a young and stylish market will be ok with how you want to roll. Likewise a Theatre shop or working as or for a seamstress. Most tobacco shops are pretty open-minded too.

Most of this is common sense. Places I have mentioned by name I either know from experience or have word from friends that they are accepting. There are places you’d never think would be cool that are (Target, USPS) and places you would think wouldn’t mind but do (Burger King, Blockbuster) I just wanted to write this to hopefully give you some ideas and get your own thoughts flowing on the topic. If you have anything to add please do!

Here is a list of companies that are supposed to be O.K with Body Mods and the like-  http://www.modifiedmind.com/employline.html

Also this MySpace page is to list places that are not O.K with that sort of thing – http://www.myspace.com/stopbodyartdiscriminat

I hope that any of this may be of help in some way!

Boring Bronzing

Summer is here once again! And as usual a plethora of bronzing beauty products are filling up the shelves. Every summer self-tanners and bronzing powders abound and they are touted as as easy way to look kissed by the sun.  That is all well and good if you like that sort of thing. I know that on people with normal-to-dark skin tones that bronzers can look pretty amazing. Like blush, they are an easy way to add some healthy color and in the summer.

But what if, like me, you are not in the normal-to-dark range of skin tones? What is you are sickly, super pale? It’s tough to find a bronzer that doesn’t look ridiculous swept over my cheeks, I can tell you what! And furthermore I don’t really want to look tan. I feel like a freak admitting it especially during this time of year but I really don’t want any self-tanner, thank you. I rather like my extremely pale skin. People with darker skin tones are always being told to be happy with how they look. So, Why do I get looked at like I have seven heads when I say “No, thank you” to the woman at the cosmetic counter that is shoving the newest shades in shimmery brown compacts under my nose? It’s good to love yourself and how you look if you’re normal but not if you look like me? Maybe I’m taking this all too personally but I’m sick of the beauty industry and all the makeup mavens becoming totally obsessed with these products this time of year, ever year.

I am going to continue practically bathing in my sun block. Unfortunately I’ll probably end up avoiding cosmetic counters for about a month as well.